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TOP 10 Negatives & Positives of Arranged Marriage |
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TOP 10 Negatives & Positives of Arranged Marriage
5 Things to Keep in Mind Before Accepting an Arranged Marriage
Arranged Marriage Relationships have changed on a drastic scale in India, but arranged marriage is still common in our culture. While love marriage is the way people want to do it today, some people like to tie the knot the traditional way and there’s nothing wrong with it. Arranged marriages make a huge part of our society and it doesn’t make you any less cool. What matters is that you find the one person you care and love. However, there are certain things about arranged marriages that scare off people. This is the reason why it is necessary to know some things before getting into an arranged marriage. We have some things you should aware of to understand the entire concept in a better way. It Will Take Time Right from looking for a suitable match to meeting them to getting to know them, all of this will take time as arranged marriages are a lengthy one. Plus, it is a person your family is introducing to you, which can take time. Families would be involved right in the beginning and there are going to be some boundaries that you need to know. Be Frank When you are in a relationship, there is plenty of time to get to know each other. But it can be challenging if you are having an arranged marriage. So, it is a good idea to lay all the cards on the table. Tell your potential match what you expect from each other. It is better to clear the air before you get married. Tell them what you need and want from your partner and ask what they are looking for. Compatibility One of the most important things before saying yes to an arranged marriage is that you know if you two are compatible or not. Emotional as well as financial compatibility is important when it comes to marriage. After all, you will be spending a lifetime together. This is an important aspect in today’s day and age and financial compatibility is also important so that there are no misunderstandings in the future. Be Open About Your Past Since you don’t have much time to have an arranged marriage, your partner will not know much about you. It is always a good idea to talk about your past to start your new life on a clean slate. Also, knowing each other’s past can help you know and understand the person better. It will tell you a lot about the person as well. Get To Know The Family Too When you have an arranged marriage, you need to know the family too. It is essential to adjust and treat the family of your potential match well because you will be spending a lifetime with their family too. So, make sure than you know them well to have a healthy relationship in the future. |